10 Obnoxious Ways Nigerian Fathers Act When Guys Visit Their Daughters
As we all know that it’s the duty of every father to protect her daughter and shield her from immoralities, waywardness, premarital se× and help shape her future. But then, some fathers are very stringent and overprotective, and below are the ways they react when guys visit their daughters.
1. They Publicly Embarrass Their Daughter’s Boyfriend
Some fathers are very strict that they can’t hide the fact that it irks them seeing their daughters having a one-on-one conversation with a guy, and when they do so, they will assault the guy with objects like koboko, broken bottle, firewood, belt, etc; especially if the man is a paramilitary officer. I (Tosyne2much) has once been a victim of this assault when my ex girlfriend’s dad molested me with koboko and left me with scars.
2. They Stay glued to the Sitting Room Listening to their Conversations
Some of them can be very lenient to allow you into their sitting room but will pretend to be watching a TV programme while they’re very attentive to the conversation between you and their daughter. Even if they’re at the verge of defecating, toilet will be the last thing on their minds due to the fear that any attempt to leave you one-to-one with their daughter can make you corner her into her bedroom and quickly shine her congo. The best topic you can discuss to portray a good image is talk about education, building a career and how to make heaven.
3. They Threaten You with Police
While some of them will gently walk you out by giving reasons why they don’t welcome male visitors, some of them will do that in insidious manner. The moment you walk into their compound and asks after their daughter, the next thing they do is embarrass and threaten you with police and kirikiri and will show you the way out of their compound
4. They Interrupt and troop in their choice Topic during your Conversation with their Daughters
In a bid to know your intellectual capacity, they will find a way to interrupt and troop in their own choice of topic just to know whether a dumb skull has been brought home. They will engage you into political discussion by asking you whether you think APC is capable of taking Nigeria to the promise land, or whether it’s ideal for Fayose to be eating warped fufu in public places.
5. They Interrogate You with Offensive Questions
Some of them can go as far asking questions that Chevron or Shell may not even ask you during job interviews. They might ask where you work, your monthly salary, whether you own a car or live in a face-to-face apartment. This reminds when I visited a lady and her father asked for my CGPA and I humbly told him it was currently in 1.25 and that I was studying tirelessly towards increasing to at least 1.80 before my graduation. He ordered me (Tosyne2much) out of their house, telling me that they don’t embrace dumb heads as visitors.